Most Common Regrets of Dying People3 min read

What are the top 5 regrets of the dying people? We can finally find out as a palliative nurse recorded the most common regrets of people who haven’t much time left to live and put her findings into her book called “The top 5 regrets of the dying”. 

Below is a list of regrets along with an excerpt from the book. At the bottom, I will put a link to the book for anyone interested in checking it out.

Before we go to the list there is one important thing to remember about regret.  It’s important to remember that at whatever stage you are in life there is no need for regret, no need to suffer from the process of regret.

Wherever and whatever you’ve done the past is the past and it cannot be changed, as regret provides nothing but suffering you have suffered enough already, don’t allow the past to dictate how you feel. Feel for the present, not for the past.

When it comes to making changes, be at peace with the past and remember that each moment is a new choice.

1. I wish I had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

 “This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. 

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Most people had not honored even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realize until they no longer have it.”

2. I wish I hadn’t worked so much and so hard.

“This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. 

 Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.”

3. Wishing I’d had the courage to express how I feel.

“Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. 

Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.”

4. I wish I’d had stayed in touch with my friends.

“Often they would not truly realize the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. 

Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.”

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

” This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realize until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. 

The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content, when deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.”

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About Darius Copac

I am 32, passionate about spirituality, metaphysics, science and psychology. Life coach, speaker and Law Of Attraction certified practitioner. Lead writer for Quantum World: Awaken Your Mind, I like to travel the world and I am an activist.
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